Do your thoughts motivate or destroy your success?
In fact, it was one of these mentors who taught me that I must give the voice of courage more focus than the voices of fear or self-doubt. And he taught me specifically how to do this. It’s really very simple: Whenever you have self-defeating thoughts or feelings, stop, recognize that you’re letting these voices influence you, and then focus on listening to the inner voice of courage. Take notes on what your seed of courage tells you to do. Never let your critical self-talk drown out courage. Always listen to what courage has to say. Always.
This theme is further developed in the book The Ant and the Elephant by author Vince Poscente. He compares our conscious and subconscious minds to an ant (the conscious mind) running on the back of an elephant (our subconscious). The ant talks to the elephant, and the elephant listens. The thing is, we have total control of our conscious mind, what the ant tells the elephant, at any given moment. We can tell it we have courage, talent, and ability, or we can tell it we are losers, destined to fail in life.
“We can tell our subconscious that we have courage, talent, and ability, or we can tell it we are losers, destined to fail in life.”
If our ant is constantly telling our elephant that we are losers and failures, it starts to believe it, and it moves in that direction. After years of convincing our subconscious of these negatives, we can’t just suddenly announce to the elephant that we are actually winners and destined to succeed. Or, more precisely, we can try to tell the elephant this new information, but it takes a lot for an ant to stop an elephant’s momentum.
After the ant tells the elephant one thing millions of times, or with a lot of intense emotion, the elephant pretty much believes it and acts on it. In my case, I had been telling myself for years that I was a failure, destined to let fear run my life, and my ant had convinced my elephant of this lie.
When I learned to give the seed of courage inside me a voice, my ant started telling my elephant about it. Of course, this didn’t change my subconscious immediately. But it started to give my subconscious mind (elephant) a different view of things. Over time, my mentors taught me, I needed to give little or no credence to self-doubt and self-lies, and use my conscious thoughts (the ant) to keep teaching my elephant “the truth.”
All success begins from your thinking
This really worked, but it wasn’t easy or immediate. It was simple, however. At first, as mentioned earlier, I learned to just give my inner courage a voice, to listen to it, to let it speak. Then, once I was doing this, my mentors taught me to replace the self-defeating voices in my mind with the voice of courage. Successful people make this a habit, and they are very serious about it and totally committed to it. Some do it naturally, and others do it more consciously, but this is something all truly successful people do.
Excerpt From: Dan Hawkins. “Swing.” iBooks.